Marge: Homey, I'm very proud of you, but don't you think you're spending too much time with Ned?

Marge: Homey, I'm very proud of you, but don't you think you're spending
too much time with Ned? Your family needs you too.
Homer: Oh, of _course_ you'd say something like that, Marge. You've
hated Ned for years! In fact, you wanted to bash his head in
with a pipe.
Marge: That was you!
Homer: Love, Marge. Don't hate -- love.
-- Back to the sixties for a second,
"Homer Loves Flanders"